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Emma Carpenter MA, MFT Post New photo in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

Emma Carpenter MA, MFT (@moderncouplestherapist) new Photo, picture

Comments (13):

01:09am 07/12/2019
As an attachment researcher and therapist, this work is spot on. Great info!
09:16am 07/12/2019
Yes, learning about my attachments style has given me freedom. ❤️
01:37pm 07/12/2019
@wisdomofwounds I’m so glad to hear that!
06:02pm 07/12/2019
Always love talking and learning about attachment
08:11pm 07/12/2019
I love using attachment theory. So helpful!
12:14am 07/13/2019
Missed you! Glad you are back
12:17am 07/13/2019
@drsharlene thanks! Glad I’m back too 💕
12:58am 07/13/2019
Attachment theory is the basis for everything!
02:01am 07/13/2019
03:04am 07/17/2019
Very useful information! Most have no idea that their issues stem from attachment problems!
03:52am 07/17/2019
@lovealways .drbetsy I can’t tell you how many people are blown away when I help them make that connection
12:33am 07/19/2019
hello there!!! it would mean a lot to me if you could like my recent pic and follow me☺️ I promote mental health awareness 💛
Emma Carpenter MA, MFT (@moderncouplestherapist) I know I’ve been M.I.A. since going on vacation. I didn’t mean to leave y’all hanging . As promised, I’m going to talk about how to heal your attachment. I did it/continue to do it, and so can you . ✨If you can, find a good attachment therapist. Lots of therapists offer sliding scale as well as evening and weekend hours ✨Learn more about your own story. Where did your attachment come from? What is your attachment with caregivers? With past relationship partners? With your current partner? When you date? ✨Read about it! Read Attached by Amir Levine. Follow therapists on social media that post about it. Find therapist blog posts about it ✨Recognize what an attachment reaction is. Is there anxiety? Where does it come from? Is there an instinct to run? What feels scary about staying? ✨Lean into the discomfort. You have to actively do the opposite of what feels comfortable for you. If you’re anxious, take a step back. If you’re avoidant, take a step closer. Breathe through it ✨Communicate! Tell your partner what you’re working through. Let them know when the attachment bond feels threatened or at risk. Let them know your triggers. Ask for what you need. It requires vulnerability, you have to learn to talk about the fears you have ✨Practice compassionate self talk. Talk to your anxious or avoidant inner voice. The voice that tells you to cling harder or run faster. It may be your inner child speaking. Let them know you appreciate it trying to protect you, but it’s okay and you got it. Be gentle with yourself and the way you speak to yourself. Have empathy for that inner child. Learn to be a good parent and partner to yourself ✨Keep working. It will be a lot of work at first. There’s so much to learn, so many new things to practice. It can feel overwhelming and impossible at times. Don’t give up. It happens in baby steps. Acknowledge those steps and watch them grow . If you’ve worked to heal your attachment, or if your an attachment therapist, share your tips and tricks for healing below! 73 13 12:54am 07/12/2019